Style Icon: Your Grandmother

Samantha Levitan (one of my dearest friends and cohorts), wrote an article recently about wearing a pair of boots that belonged to her equally stylish Manhattanite mother Carolyn. For S.L.L., tromping around NYC wearing the once-loved boots of her mother was more sentimental than most of her fashion statements. In the article, Samantha explained that stepping into her mother's shoes meant learning lessons from her mother's life, but also trekking forward in her own direction. She was walking through her life's adventures as her mother's daughter, but on a path all her own. 

I grew up admiring the way my grandmother "Skippy" dressed. In my childhood visits up to CT, I loved to watch her get ready for an evening out, and vividly remember how she would kiss me goodnight, as I drifted off to sleep as the trace of her Tresor perfume lingered in my bedroom. 

Now that I am the one going out at night with friends, as I dress up in my grandmother's favorite things, it feels somehow emblematic of how I have grown up. My mother now watches me get ready, saying goodbye as I whisk out the door, leaving my own trail of Coco Mademoiselle. 

Looking at the elder females in our families, not only should we take note of timeless styles to incorporate into our personal wardrobe, but also look to how these women are dressing their bodies as a forecast for the future of our own physique and the challenges and blessings it will bring. 

Here is a look at my first style icon. 

3 Generations of Laidlaw women 

Oh Kate

A beautiful cover gets me every time. Even when I was in Europe - I could not help but fork over the equivalent of $18 for the British Vogue with Sienna Miller on the cover, or the French Vogue with the enviable spread featuring Giselle in looks that were spot on lust-worthy. 

The HUB unfortunately only carries British Harper's... So I guess I have to get my mom to send me the French, Italian, and British issues of Vogue, or I could wait until I hop across the pond soon myself. 

This month's Vogue UK features KM looking divine. I need to get my hands on it right now... Luckily - my favorite Upper East-sider (SLL) is heading ACKward Saturday. 

Calling Cards

In Factory Girl (one of my favs, in case that wasn't clear), Edie describes her cohort Chuck upon their arrival in NYC saying "he was flamboyant socialite who carried a pocketful of calling cards." 

With the age of crackberries and iPhone apps, exchanged contacts are infrequently scrawled on matchbooks and cocktail napkins, and what a shame this is, as calling cards are not only much more personal, but also much less likely forgotten in the fervently collected but frequently ignored list of phone numbers we hastily digitize. 

In my latest I-need-new-stationery jaunt, I came across this colorful and fabulon website IOMOI, that makes me think calling cards are a new necessity. 

Mission: Explorerers Club NYC

With the glitz and excitement surrounding Vogue's SEPTEMBER ISSUE, its funny that I can't help thinking about the August issue. One article, and one woman in particular remain fresh in my thoughts. The article: Adventures in Wonderland, and the woman, Anne Doubilet. Written by Eve MacSweeney, Anne's lifestyle is described as containing the je ne sais quoi that allows her to capture the essence (and some of the physical benefits) of youth, thus pertaining to the grander scheme of this month's theme of the "Age Issue."

Reading about Doubilet's initial fascination with diving with made me realize the similarities in our first descents and the shared delight we both felt in the discovery of a secret world, with the blissful escape from the terrestrial one. In Doubilet's own words, "it was when I took my first open-water dive in the Bahamas at a barrier reef off Andros Island when I had my first Alice in Wonderland moment. I stepped off the side of the boat into crystallize turquoise and entered an enchanted realm."

While Doubliet's career and stamina are enviable, as is her active membership in The Explorers Club, where she "recently chaired a forum to bring experts together to discus the crisis in the oceans: the world's coral reefs in major decline; the seas overfished; global warming affecting the food chain; a gyre of plastic twice the size of Texas swirling in the Pacific; seals and whales getting cancers from toxic chemicals - among several other grim facts."

Doubilet is a woman who, in discussing her career, says "I never lose my sense of wonder and curiosity." The perfect candidate for the Explorers Club which Vogue's MacSweeney describes as looking like Jordan College in The Golden Compass. The building on East Seventieth Street is a gathering for scientists and explorers alike who share in the eternal quest to discover, explore, and learn.

Explorers Club - I want in.

The Genius Of Kelly Wearstler

On Dabney Lee's "moderne blog," she mentions interior design queen Kelly Wearstler. Similarities are evident in the way they both add a sense of fun to the style of daily living, as well as they way they juxtapose contrasting colors in a way that works brilliantly to create unique and comfortably chic rooms.

Of course, because of my sister Shannon, I had heard of this minx-like guru long before her status as a Bravo Top Design judge. I am currently lusting after her book "Modern Glamour and the Art of Unexpected Style." 

As described by publisher Harper Collins: "In this lavishly illustrated book, Hollywood's hottest new interior designer shows readers how mixing and matching designs from different eras and adding an element of the unexpected can redefine any room-residential or commercial."

Loving Dabney Lee

While carousing for new stationery, I came across Dabney Lee; a fun company by Dabney herself out of her love for "fabulous colors and stylish paper goods." hmmmm. She also has monogrammed wall art, but thats just if you want to realllyyyy go fancy.

While some of her stationery is a little loud for everyday, Dabney Lee has expanded to include "Dabney Lee At Home."

What lucky friend of mine is going to receive a personalized monogrammed Lucite tray???

Back to 2008. Gaultier's Sirens

In searching for the reinvention of the breton stripe that is said to be on the Balmain runway for fall, I came across a beautiful collection from J.P. Gaultier's Spring 2008 Couture Collection. I was in South Africa. 

Parisian haute couture designers have been diving deep for inspiration this season—literally. Jean Paul Gaultier, like Karl Lagerfeld at Chanel, plunged into an aquatic adventure, though in his case, it was "Little Mermaid says, 'Hello Sailor!' " You can always count on JPG for a fun tableau to get things started, so there she was: Coco Rocha, posing on a rock against a watery backdrop with soap bubbles floating up around her.

The mergirl-mariner theme made a neat excuse for another of Gaultier's signature cross-gender mergers. It opened with a couple of memorably chic twists on Parisian classics: a stunning slim navy coat over a striped sweater and sinuous gold-sequin column skirt and a semitranslucent scallop-edged trench that might have been made of fish skin. From there, he trawled the oceans for similes: macramé made to look like fishing nets, plissé inserts suggesting underwater flora, chiffon fronds floating like seaweed, cascading paillettes imitating fish scales or mother-of-pearl, necklaces fashioned into spongiform beads.

It ended with Rocha, making an entrance as the mermaid bride on coral crutches, with a pair of conical shells for a bra. That was a typical ta-da Gaultier punch line, and the couturier was certainly in a cheery mood afterward. "When I started couture, I really thought couture customers were dead or dying," he said. "But now there are all these new clients. We're working all the time, and I love it—it's a permit to create!"

The mermaid influence is obvious, which I LOVE. It also reminds me of some of my favorite paintings by Gustav Klimt: beautiful, mysterious, and slightly eiry.